Update

So I realized it has been a couple months since I posted so incase you haven't heard Kaz and I had a slight change in plans for our immediate future. I moved back to the US in May and we planned on me getting a teaching position from this fall, then Kaz was going to move to the states after the wedding. We found out the end of June that due to a new requirement on fiancée' visas they are now taking 9 month to a year to get approved rather than the 4 months we were told when we first applied. We were pretty sure that Kaz wasn't going to get his visa in time for the wedding and as long as they are processing a visa application you are not allowed in the country; therefore, he possibly would be denied entry into Hawaii. Rather than taking our chances with the speed of the US immigration we decided to cancel his petition and I returned to Japan. I started a new job at a college that is prepping students to transfer to US and UK universities. It is in downtown Tokyo, and since Kaz works downtown also we will get an apartment in Tokyo. So... That is what is up with us. When the time comes to move to the states will reapply for a spouse visa which apparently takes much less time.